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When Swingers come a swinging

My wife was approached by a known ‘swinger’ yesterday. She apparently wanted her to “come over to her house” this weekend, to “have a good time.” Denice was pretty embarrassed by the request, and didn’t know how to respond.

I don’t know exactly what the lady had in mind, but I’m assuming, “have a good time” to a swinger probably involves some sort of kinky sex… possibly involving more than two participants. When I was a Christian fundamentalist, being propositioned like this would have most likely triggered a hostile, knee-jerk reaction from me. Back then I was pretty by the book about sex. It was only supposed to happen with two people, of different genders, and only within the confines of a church/state sanctioned marital union. Oh, and only the missionary position, in the dark was kosher.

I remember getting hit on once by a gay fellow. Well, it was more flirting that getting ‘hit on,’ but I didn’t respect the difference back then. I blasted the guy. I think I may have even pulled Leviticus 18:22 on him. Looking back on the encounter today, I regret my behavior. This guy was really nice, and in spite of my rudeness, was respectful of my beliefs. Today, I would have handled things much differently. I think I would feel honored that someone, whether male or female, found me attractive and/or interesting enough to inquire about getting to know me on an intimate level. I would probably thank them for their interest, but explain to them that I am already in a very fulfilling relationship.